I dont know what to do about this. I have twins, a son and daughter both in 6th grade. The daughter is doing great but the son is terrible in school and terrible in sports. No critical thinking or coordination.

I know this sounds harsh but I dont want to raise such a loser of a son. I don’t know why he can’t be more like his sister. Everytime I come home from work my wife tells my son “to go ask dad about his day”- she thinks this can make us bond. But I’m just disgusted with his short hair and baggy shorts and earring and that dull idiotic expression.

what do I do. I just can’t stand it. I work as a fairly successful lawyer and we have a good life but I can’t stand raising a son that may very well become a janitor.